Friday, April 15, 2016

What are the biggest mistakes you can do in life?

These are some striking ones.
FIRST, by not respecting those who love you the most. Taking them casually. Assuming they'll always be there and there are more important things at hand that merit attention. And then, slowly seeing their love and affection diminish as the poor souls fail to get any reciprocation.
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SECOND, by only chasing stuff that is totally temporary and has no lasting value. Each such experience will make you poorer, and hungrier. The vicious circle goes all the way down. You cannot get permanence by chasing scintillas. They may give pleasure in the "here and now", but life needs much more to be fulfilling.
THIRD, by assuming that your present skill-sets will see you through for the next decade or more, and not constantly reinventing yourself. It actually is quite easy - keep an open mind, embrace change, read a lot and love new thoughts.
FOURTH, by constantly berating and insulting your own roots. While you may think you look stylish and "in" doing that, those who truly seek originality will maintain their distance. That's one powerful treasure you are now going to miss.
FIFTH, by destroying yourself in your own eyes. And that's done by bench-marking your Chapter 1 with others' Chapter 100 or 350 or 799.
Life is too precious to be lost in worthless pursuits. Love your work, but don't lose yourself in it. Create value, but don't become worthless in doing so. Build brands, but ensure your own gets built too. Be thoroughly sincere towards your work, but don't forget detachment. Best of luck!
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11 comments:

Suman Banerjee said...

Sir, I could not understand the fifth point - "by destroying yourself in your own eyes. And that's done by bench-marking your Chapter 1 with others' Chapter 100 or 350 or 799.". Will you elaborate this line please?

Sourav Das said...

sir i have became your fan after watching your learning session on youtube.sir i just want to know...WHAT IF SOMEONE WANT TO CHANGE,BUT SOMEHOW HE COULDN'T.HOW SOMEONE CAN INCREASE HIS WILL POWER?
sir,i am preparing for IFS,and u have no idea how u inspired me through your video.sir it is a big question from one of your poor student.plese reply me.

Sourav Das said...

sir,what if someone want to change but somehow he couldn't.how someone cane increase his will power?
sir,i have become your fan after watching your learning session on youtube.pls reply this.

Utkarsh Singh said...

Thank you for this short and sweet blog.

Pradeep Yadav said...

Great...

Prince Sharma said...

these are very valuable things that you mentioned..but people usually forgets them in long run due to modernization and race to urbanize themselves and also from peer pressure loose values that their elders have always tried to give them since birth..

i have taken a cue from this post and will always be following them so as not to make mistakes like these ...A great motivating article once again...

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Ramesh Roy said...

Thanks Sandeep for sharing nice thoughts. Looking forward for your next article.Regards, Ramesh Roy

Narayan Harjani said...

Thank you sir for writing these kind of articles too.It is such a motivating reality check for us

Mohit Mahajan said...

Thank you Sir for this heartwarming article. I strongly feel these are a few life principles, everyone should live their lives with.